I am me, a 33 year old woman/girl. I am for the most part pretty laid back, I am slow to anger and quick to smile. I don't like conflict and will work my hardest to keep things running smoothly. I can be a bit shy and reserved at times, especially if I have lots on my mind, but I love laughter  and try to do it often.
I am a very creative person and feel at my best when I can exercise my creativity through Graphic Arts, Media, and other artistic ventures. I am currently a full time student working to become a graphic and web designer, I absolutely love it and feel very blessed that I can do what I love every day!  It still amazes me that I get to “play” for work, doing something that I absolutely love that God gave me a passion for but that also constantly challenges me. It is such a fun adventure every day, experiencing how God gets me through each day’s trials with school and work, and I try to keep in mind “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord.”
Outside of work and school I take joy in finding something to make me laugh, I adore KIND sarcasm and I will love you if you can make me laugh until my side hurts. Music is a huge part of my life and I like almost any genre depending on my mood, as long as the lyrics speak to my heart and soul. Singing is something I’ve been told that I am good at, and I truly love leading worship at my church. I am a major supporter of Size Acceptance, intuitive eating and the HAES way of life. I am a MK, TK, and PK, if you don't know what those are, ask me I might tell you. If you do know what they are, you get a cookie.
I am a muddle of contradictions; God is working on me every day though, to become a woman with His heart. He is breaking me down to rebuild and remold me and it is not easy and certain not painless but WOW what an amazing journey! I have been experiencing a revival in my heart, strengthening my relationship with God, and just wanting to learn more about Him and His character!
My Ideal Person:
"A woman's heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her.” This quote sums up perfectly my thoughts on dating and the “ideal Match. ” My relationship with Jesus is of the utmost importance to me so it is absolutely VITAL for any man who comes into my life as a potential suitor to share that faith and to have his own relationship with God. As a woman, I know that I am called to submit to my husband and so I am looking for someone who is strong in His faith that I can submit to. The thought of sharing that love for Christ with my mate, being able to praise God together and learn more about Him, fills me with such joy. I know that if we are both focused on Christ it can only bring us closer together!
Going along with that I need a man who shares my belief of saving yourself sexually for marriage, who respects and helps me to keep that promise, and who doesn’t make me have to constantly have to defend my purity. If you have made mistakes in the past that is ok, but my ideal match will respect my stance and will work with me to help keep our relationship one that glorifies God in all things especially in the area of sexual intimacy.
I desire to be able to have fun with you because it is great to be able to laugh together, when things get stressful and crazy it. I would love a friend, someone I can hang out with, and be crazy with and go to concerts, etc. In fact, I think the most successful marriages begin with good friends. Let me be perfectly honest because I hate games and I refuse to play them, I am done playing, I have been hurt way to many times by men I trusted. Going through what I have has made me realize that there isn’t anything wrong with being single if that is what God has planned. I don’t want to use a guy just to make myself feel better, or to not be lonely, that isn’t fair to the men in my life nor is it fair to their future wife, who would then have to deal with those consequences.
Other than that I really don't know, I feel like you can't make a definite list because I believe that God will give you exactly what you need but it might not be what you were expecting. Ultimately, it is up to God who He wants me to give my heart to and I have to trust Him to make it clear to me when His time is right!
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Please describe your faith. How important is your faith to you?
I love Jesus... I have known him since I was young.. and through all the hard times he never let me go. Things have not always been easy, but I can't deny he is Lord! I am still a work in progress God isn't finished with me yet, and my main goal is to just let him mold me into what he wants me to be.
Which Scripture verses are most important to you?
The verse that means the most to me right now is
..."Let the beloved of the LORD rest secure in him,
for he shields him all day long,
and the one the LORD loves rests between his shoulders."
Deuteronomy 33:12
Why is a Christian relationship so important to you?
It is important because I feel the only hope a relationship has these days is if it is built on God. The closer you both become to Him the closer you will be to each other!
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