I can be described as trustworthy, faithful and a good companion. I believe in open-mindedness and a commitment to the tried-and-true. In most things, I have moderate views and
believe in a wide range of possibilities in life. I always try to express myself with candor and openness which has made connections between me and my friends deeper and stronger. I am
a very responsible person that is giving and loving, sometimes to giving, but a heart that has not been broken doesn't know what love truly is.
Like someone who can sleep comfortably on either side of the bed, I am equally at home with ideas and beliefs that I have held for a long time and with new ways of thinking and
believing. I always try to be accepting of others and flexible in my own commitments. I try to remain well-informed in areas that matter to me, and I believe I am aware of who I am and
where I stand.
I enjoy my own company as much as I enjoy the company of others. Because of this I am comfortable with almost any group of family or friends. Whether they are pumped up and lively
or calm and subdued, I remain at ease. I am comfortable taking the lead; but I can also lay back and let someone else be in charge. I can seem shy at first, mostly because I want to see
what you have to say and get a true feeling of who you are.
I am the type of person that when I take on a task at work or at home, I am reliable and get the job done in an organized way, I define the goal, lay out a plan, figure how long the task
will take, and get to work "solid and dependable me." But, I am not a slave to the plan. I am committed to it, but not chained to it; the connection is more casual and informal. I know
that sometimes "the best laid plans" fall off the tracks; but when this happens, I clean up the train wreck and start over, undeterred. When plans change, I'm okay with it. In fact,
sometimes I change the plan. It's too nice of a Saturday to finish organizing the garage. Let's go for a bike ride instead. The next rainy Saturday will likely find me back in the garage,
but for now the work can wait.
I believe that when one door closes a window will open. That whether a relationship was good or bad we can learn from it and improve the next and at some point everything will come
together and all the pieces will fit making a relationship that will last forever. Someday I will find that relationship.
My Ideal Person:
I find it difficult to describe the person I'm looking for but there are certain qualities I do look for - which are fairly consistent. Here are some of the traits that I am in search of: Someone who desires a happy healthy relationship, someone who is smart and intellectually stimulating. Someone who is honest and has good communication skills, someone who is a good listener.A good woman with a big heart, who is kind and loving. Someone who is committed to the relationship and who is willing to work on it.
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