My Ideal Person:
I was raised going to church, and unfortunately spent nearly thirty years away from it. Women outside the church (non-believers) may appear to be more desirable than those in the church on the surface. However, Christian women shouldn't try to compete with them on their grounds. You can still be sexy, charming and appealing without appearing rigid, bitter and cold. Besides you have a charm and a grace that they cannot match. You can be confident and vibrant without being arrogant, icy or sleazy.

Do I find myself looking pehaps when I shouldn't. You know the answer. But through it all, I still am not willing to forget about my christian values. So I continue to search and battle.

I don't enjoy women who are too big. I enjoy a woman who has a good intellectual understanding of the scriptures and can do more than look good.

If you walk into most churches, you will find them to be very homogenized. That's perfectly ok. We were made in God's own image. To most of us, that means we worship with people who look like us. Call me different but I prefer congregations where there is variety. The same for dating. I enjoy women of other races and cultures.